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Business Do you believe in life after love?

Peregrine

Avatar: 135742 2011-10-31 19:55:54 -0400
6

[love is a dog from-
hell
]

Level 35 Camwhore

Forumwarz' Pretend Homosexual

Seriously though, after a relationship ends, what are you like? Are you quick to bounce back or does it really weigh heavily on you?

I’m pretty much a mess after relationships, thinking about what I could’ve done better, how things could have been different. Any tips out there for those of us who “really aren’t strong enough?”

Cheetara

Avatar: 132104 Sat Feb 28 02:21:16 -0500 2009
4

Level 24 Troll

“Dick in a Box”

I get over it fast. I’ve always been the one to end it, though, so it hasn’t been terribly hard.

These will sound like trolling, but they actually work if you’re interesting in getting over someone:

Get the person out of your life for a while. 2 weeks at minimum, I think – which means avoid being around them if possible, block yourself from their facebook, and wear a rubber band so you can snap yourself whenever you think of them. Make up a stupid nickname for them. Now, if you must think about them, you can think, “Oh, those are the same shoes that Polygon male reproductive organ used to wear”. Imagine that person sitting on your bed and farting on it. Exaggerate the perceived hotness of pbumers-by. Go on a noncommittal date or two. Stay busy with work or creative projects. Remind yourself that literally everyone gets a billion chances at love, and you just have to be patient.

Cheetara edited this message on 04/26/2009 3:00AM

Yubi Shines

Avatar: 50531 Wed Apr 22 01:49:18 -0400 2009
13

[Island of Avalon]

Level 69 Emo Kid

“The Infinite Sadness”

Yeah, but can you find love in a battlefield?

Seriously speaking, just distract yourself as much as possible. Get out of the house to stop moping, get your friends to drag you out for a nice day at the amusement park or something. Anything to stop you from dwelling and stewing inside your head.

Damey

Avatar: Blue Guitar
10

Level 35 Emo Kid

“Cutty Cutterson”

pictures of taylor kitsch.

:3

Balloon

Avatar: Balloon's Avatar
28

[Grey Goose Mafiosi]

Level 35 Camwhore

Inflate my ovaries until they pop out of me and float away

Yes. Otherwise Ben & Jerry’s would be out of business.

BloodyDemise

Avatar: 121820 2010-06-13 01:05:56 -0400
5

[Throne of Blood]

Level 60 Emo Kid

“Final Cut Pro”

I get moodswingy as hell. One moment I’m feeling pretty okay considering, the next I’m a wreck with inadequacy issues, then after that I’m a ball of ex-directed rage.

Today’s a ‘pretty okay considering’ day. Log in to see images! yes, bawwww

Everybodykno-
ws

Avatar: Corset 2
14

[Sisterhood of the -
Quivering Rose
]

Level 30 Camwhore

“Courte-chan”

i’m pretty much a mess when it happens. i mean hell, i tried drinking myself to oblivion (while keeping in mind obligations like work) the first month after this last one happened. and my moods are still unpredictable. it’s been about 2 months.

i decided a while ago that i can’t dwell on it forever. i still love her, but she’s not going to get back with me, at least not for a long time if at all. so i figure it’s best to try and move on. i’m trying to get laid (so far to no avail), just so i can feel less bad about her ****ing other people. and i mean, 2 months without sex when you’ve gotten used to at least once a week is stressful as hell. and getting moreso all the time.

also, to respond to the title with a song quote: “Life goes on, even after the thrill of living is gone”

Everybodyknows edited this message on 04/29/2009 12:51AM

Shii

Avatar: 23167 2010-01-24 16:31:18 -0500
27

[Phantasmagoric Spl-
endor
]

Level 35 Emo Kid

I haven't seen a bad idea that I didn't like.

I was with my first girlfriend for three straight years.

She broke up with me, I got over it. I had been planning to marry her (we were both in college by the time the relationship ended) but she ended up changing a lot when she got away from her abusive parents.

I learned a lot, so I had no regrets, and I was fine. Been single since; not really interested in finding someone else at the moment; music is more important.

dobnits

Avatar: 58842 2010-01-24 16:19:10 -0500
51

[The Scrotal Safety-
Commission
]

Level 69 Troll

THE LEGENDARY PINK DOBS

I honest to whichever deity you choose to believe in, do not believe in any form of love.

That pretty much makes my response an auto-no right?

Shii

Avatar: 23167 2010-01-24 16:31:18 -0500
27

[Phantasmagoric Spl-
endor
]

Level 35 Emo Kid

I haven't seen a bad idea that I didn't like.

dobnits Posted:

I honest to whichever deity you choose to believe in, do not believe in any form of love.

That pretty much makes my response an auto-no right?

What do you believe in?

Mutual sexual attraction?

dobnits

Avatar: 58842 2010-01-24 16:19:10 -0500
51

[The Scrotal Safety-
Commission
]

Level 69 Troll

THE LEGENDARY PINK DOBS

Mostly people falling victim to commercialism and the fact that for some reason, it is one of the few things ALL societies can come to accept regardless of background. People only “love” each other because other people “love” each other. Love is pretty much a disease. Why do you think they call it lovesick.

As for what Shii said. Log in to see images!

That may also be it.

It is simply human urge to repopulate, as with most organisms.

dobnits edited this message on 04/29/2009 1:30AM

Adapt

Avatar: 58104 2011-10-31 21:36:25 -0400
16

[Grey Goose Mafiosi]

Level 48 Camwhore

Celerysteve Changed Adapt's Custom Title

This thread makes me sad.

CoreyJess

Avatar: 2355 2011-07-31 00:12:45 -0400
24

[Brainfreeze]

Level 69 Troll

Pie cannot hide overwhelming naughtiness!

dobnits Posted:

People only “love” each other because other people “love” each other. Love is pretty much a disease. Why do you think they call it lovesick.

At the risk of sounding like a total sap(and I know I will), I have to disagree with you.

While I don’t believe in “story book love”, I do know that true love exists.

I’ve been married for over 10 years now, and I love my wife so much that it is all at once the greatest happiness and the greatest pain in my life. I think it’s called “lovesick” because of the pain in my gut I feel at the very idea of ever having to live my life without her.

The idea of love as dictated by main stream media may be bull****, but when the person you’re with in a relationship is also your best friend in the world, can it really be anything other than love?

Adapt

Avatar: 58104 2011-10-31 21:36:25 -0400
16

[Grey Goose Mafiosi]

Level 48 Camwhore

Celerysteve Changed Adapt's Custom Title

Cheetara Posted:

and wear a rubber band so you can snap yourself whenever you think of them

I also found that snapping myself with a rubber band only served to reinforce ideas.

Cheetara

Avatar: 132104 Sat Feb 28 02:21:16 -0500 2009
4

Level 24 Troll

“Dick in a Box”

Adapt Posted:

I also found that snapping myself with a rubber band only served to reinforce ideas.

You’re right – pretty soon, whenever you see a rubber band, you’ll be bursting into tears over the agonizing pain bumociated with your lost love. Strike that.

A-haaaaaa. Oh wait. I did. Log in to see images!

AIRZ

Avatar: Camouflage Top

Level 37 Camwhore

“Legs Wide Open”

it really depends on the relationship

the serious ones always take their toll, and i’m definitely not quick to bounce back even though i pretend to be headstrong

and the short ones, they’ll find themselves contacted out of the blue for being on my “mistakes of my life” list that i make in rehab

Everybodykno-
ws

Avatar: Corset 2
14

[Sisterhood of the -
Quivering Rose
]

Level 30 Camwhore

“Courte-chan”

dobnits Posted:

Mostly people falling victim to commercialism and the fact that for some reason, it is one of the few things ALL societies can come to accept regardless of background. People only “love” each other because other people “love” each other. Love is pretty much a disease. Why do you think they call it lovesick.

As for what Shii said. Log in to see images!

That may also be it.

It is simply human urge to repopulate, as with most organisms.

eh, i used to feel that way until i felt real love. and this was regardless of sex. it took us quite a while to actually have sex with each other for the first time.

i don’t however subscribe to the “love conquuers all” mentality. sometimes two people can love each other with everything they’ve got and it’s not enough to make things work. :/

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