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spacekadt Posted:
I completely agree with her; marriage should not and cannot be defined in terms of making babies, for the very reasons she listed. It’s unfair to the infertile or to those who simply don’t want kids. It’s a stupid standard and I really feel like it’s the last bastion of the desperate and unintelligent who don’t realize how badly changing definitions of marriage to that extent would screw over people. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:27AM | View Shii's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
bull****, shii. ridiculous is lumping gay people in with bestiality or pedophilia. as soon as animals or children are the same as *consenting adults* you can make that argument. until then, let’s keep apples and oranges separate, k?
edit: so wait, fetishes should not get the right to marry. anything that does not result in children is a fetish. but gay people should be able to marry? spacekadt edited this message on 06/03/2009 2:31AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:28AM | View spacekadt's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
Are you serious with this? If it doesn’t make babies, it’s a fetish? I’m really having a hard time taking you seriously if that’s actually your position. I’m sorry, but your religious beliefs do not in fact determine what is and is not a fetish.
And no, lumping pedophilia and bestiality in with homosexuality is not by any means okay. Need I remind you that gay marriage involves two CONSENTING adults? Children and animals cannot give consent. There is a huge fundamental difference there. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:28AM | View plk's Profile | # | ||||||
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spacekadt Posted:
I said in my previous posts I don’t think that they’re the same to the consent issue and the suffering implicit within the latter two, but as far as fetishes go, they all act the same.
It’s like saying “well, sounding is fine, but anyone who indulges in watersports is a sick ****.” Sorry, but personal preferences don’t give fetishes any different hierarchy. They’re all the same from a biological standpoint.
EDIT: I’m going to bed; there’s no point in arguing this further. We’ve all said our piece, and moral standpoints shouldn’t be and won’t be changed by a single thread in an online game.
I enjoyed the discussion; see you all later. Shii edited this message on 06/03/2009 2:32AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:30AM | View Shii's Profile | # | ||||||
Shii Posted:
So heterosexuality is a fetish? You don’t seem to understand what fetishes are.
I thought this thread was about gay marriage rights? |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:30AM | View twas's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
so are you denying marriage to someone that enjoys watersports? |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:32AM | View spacekadt's Profile | # | ||||||
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It is, and that’s why I’m done posting here. It’s just being derailed and no new opinions are being expressed.
EDIT: No, space, I was giving an example about how silly drawing lines between fetishes are. Every fetish is 100% exactly as legitimate as all the rest. Shii edited this message on 06/03/2009 2:34AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:33AM | View Shii's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
Okay, what about like abasiophilia, attraction to physically disabled people? It doesn’t impact the chances of reproduction (bumuming the appropriate pieces are still all functional) but is undoubtly a fetish. There are many others on this list so I just grabbed the first appropriate one.
I think your defintion of fetish fails. Ricket edited this message on 06/03/2009 2:36AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:35AM | View Ricket's Profile | # | ||||||
Shii Posted:
Okay, then I think we can agree that marriage rights shouldn’t be extended to only those of a particular fetish. I am sure we both agree that marriage should be allowed to two consenting adult irregardless of their chosen fetish. This fits with what we just agreed on. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:37AM | View twas's Profile | # | ||||||
I would like to point out that two furries can marry without an issue only as long as they are of different sexes. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:38AM | View twas's Profile | # | ||||||
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Going against my statement of “no more posts” as I shut off my compy to reinforce that I came into this thread saying that gays should have equal legal rights in partnership and that I still hold that view. My own personal viewpoints on homosexuality itself doesn’t abridge their rights as Americans to equal tax and legal benefits. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:41AM | View Shii's Profile | # | ||||||
Shii Posted:
Separate but equal. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:43AM | View twas's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
and we’re back to semantics. currently, the only way to bestow these rights is by a government recognized “marriage” (in quotes because that’s the exact word, not for sarcasm). however, 52% (a ****ing *slim* majority) just defined “marriage” as only being valid between a man and a woman. a damned slim majority just removed civil rights from a minority.
I’m still waiting for someone to tell me how this is ok…
hell. take marriage out of the picture. with this law/court ruling, I could just as easily say that any registered independent voter should not be allowed to own a home. all I need is 50.1% of voters to agree with me and now I’ve removed that right as well. it’s a really ****ing slippery slope that I’m *not* ok with. spacekadt edited this message on 06/03/2009 2:48AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:47AM | View spacekadt's Profile | # | ||||||
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spacekadt Posted:
I never posted anything pertaining to homosexuality. I never said it was wrong, or right, or a fetish or whatever. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 2:56AM | View Generic Racist's Profile | # | ||||||
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Shii Posted:
spacekadt Posted:
Generic Racist Posted:
the point was not fetish, the point was discussing marriage as a union between two people for the purpose of procreation.
Generic Racist Posted:
Generic Racist Posted:spacekadt edited this message on 06/03/2009 3:04AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 3:03AM | View spacekadt's Profile | # | ||||||
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I’d still like to know where Shii got the idea that homosexuality is a fetish. Not even psychologists believe that anymore, and they are notoriously slow on the uptake. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 3:05AM | View plk's Profile | # | ||||||
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spacekadt Posted:
I already did. http://www.forumwarz.com/discussions/view_post/619626
Felon’s can’t vote and I don’t see you raging over that. Aren’t they a minority too? Should we protect them from the evil, ignorant majority? What about their civil rights? Or we just pick and choose who we need to “protect”.
Have you ever thought that maybe you are wrong on this issue? Have you ever though that if the evil, bigoted majority doesn’t want something it shouldn’t be imposed on them. And maybe the poor oppressed minority should pack up and leave if they don’t like it?
The whole issue is about money and acceptance. You can’t force people to accept something and the government can choose who it wasn’t to give money to. Everyone here is acting like these people are beaten and thrown into concentration camps. Go to China and see how they treat gays there, and then tell me we are discriminating against gays here.
I done posting in this thread but i may come back for more liberal OUTRAAAAAAAAGGGGE if I need a laugh. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 3:13AM | View Generic Racist's Profile | # | ||||||
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Generic Racist Posted:
I encourage you to re-read your own post. The government didn’t take these right away, the *people* took them away after *the government* granted them.
Generic Racist Posted:
That’s about as valid as comparing homosexuals to pedos.
Generic Racist Posted:
What, pray tell, is being imposed on heterosexuals here? Are you afraid you’re going to be forced into a homosexual marriage? How is this any different from a white man that couldn’t marry a black woman?
Generic Racist Posted:
The government didn’t do anything here. Literally. Some bigoted whack job got enough signatures to put a law on the ballot to define marriage. Never mind that we just had a law trump our state constitution and a court upheld it… but there was zero legislative action here. This isn’t about government defining anything. The government actually said it was pretty ok just a few years ago… this is about *people* telling *other people* who they can and can’t marry.
I honestly don’t know how China treats homosexuals, but it sure as **** doesn’t legitimize taking away rights here. Let’s go for an analogy here. My arm is broken and I got laid off the night before I broke my arm. That’s a pretty ****ed up situation. Some of my friends also got laid off, but they didn’t break their arms. Does that mean that they shouldn’t get unemployment, just because I have it worse? Just because my situation is ****ed doesn’t mean that those friends don’t have it pretty ****ty themselves. spacekadt edited this message on 06/03/2009 3:51AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 3:49AM | View spacekadt's Profile | # | ||||||
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i just want to find a nice guy and be happy with him and have all the same rights that we could have if i were a woman
i want to have the house on the corner with the front lawn and the sidewalk and the white picket fence and the dog and maybe kids but maybe not the kids i think i’d want to have more sex than a regular hetero marriage has Peregrine edited this message on 06/03/2009 4:13AM |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 4:09AM | View Peregrine's Profile | # | ||||||
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Okay Shii, I’m not going to bust your chops over everything the others have. I am going to take exception to you referring to Canada as “Socialist”.
Over the last 15 years Canada has been a bastion of fiscally conservative policies especially compared to our neighbours to the South. Our current government- The Conservative Party of Canada – to be fair is not as right wing as the Republicans but is certainly to the right of the Democrats. Canada is far more socially liberal than the US (so is every other Democracy on Earth for that matter) but that is indicative of us being far less religious than you not far more socialist.
As far as gay marriage I’ll just say this: In 20 years your children will be as astounded by the fact that gays were not allowed to marry as we are when we consider that a few decades ago inter-racial marriages were illegal in many States. |
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Posted On: 06/03/2009 4:34AM | View Fiasco's Profile | # | ||||||