Yeah, I’m aware. I’m a bit socially inept, despite my good looks. And it certainly doesn’t help not having a bit more confidence. Yet I see guys who are ugly as hell who are doing well with the ladies….

It’s easy to say “be more confident”, but when it comes down to doing it, it’s difficult. I’ve asked for tips on approaching women in bars on other forums, but most of the responses either involve having a wingman or a group of friends. Considering I’m usually flying solo (a lot of my friends either don’t go to bars or aren’t free the same nights I am), that’s not much help.

I have been trying Craig’s List personals, but all I’ve gotten even when replying to ads for the most part is people linking to “age verification” sites that require a credit card (*coughcough*scams*coughcough*). And was half-wondering if AFF is worth the money.