MagusDiablo Posted:

For cryin’ out loud, so many good tips ^^

Srsly, I didn’t hope to find so many good answers for my problem over here ^^

And for sexyminx, my last relationship ended because the girl was crazily a child (not in the age facxtor, but the mind factor), broke up with me to enjoy some time with other guys, broke her face and tried to come back to me…

Of course I dumped her… I’m not a sitting chair, that is hoping to be used for some while and then dumped…

Good job. If they walk away, don’t be stupid enough to A. hold them back and B. to be waiting for them to crawl back.

My first relationship lasted three years, and I think the primary reason is because we both weren’t afraid to have a good argument. If you both try to swallow every issue and deal with it, eventually it’ll build up into a break-up.

If you’re ****ed, tell her. If she’s ****ed, make it clear that you want her to tell you exactly why and that you’re willing to listen.

Let her pay sometimes. I always, always paid for a long time, and she sometimes got irritated at me because she felt I was being too one-sided. (If I let her pay though, I made sure she gave me the money first. I’m not about to look bad in a restaurant by letting the gf pay. ^-^)

The tip about juggling is a good one, as far as random things go. I enjoy cultivating random talents, personally, and I’ve taught myself to juggle, as well as spinning flat items on a finger in the same way one does a basketball (I can do everything from textbooks to newspaper to lunch trays now). Find something mindless that requires a lot of practice, like spinning pencils/pens/drumsticks between fingers.

Tubmail me if you need anything else.