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My sister is 24. It was a few months ago the first time she found out she had “Lesions” on her cervix. That was the explanation they initially gave her. No idea what it was or why it was there. Another month revealed that they were cysts, possibly cancerous but not for sure. My sister had to go through the painful procedure of getting them removed. That was in April. Last week, she went back to the doctor for a check up. The cysts are not gone and she has to go through the pain of getting them removed again. If it doesn’t work this time, my 24 year old sister has to have a hysterectomy…
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 8:50AM | View SLAVE-JEWESS's Profile | # | ||||||
It isnt a total loss. She might not be able to carry her own child, but she can freeze eggs and have a surrogate carry them. Adoption is always out there too. It is sad, but she will still be alive and well, and able to create and care for children, it will just be a little more challenging. |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 10:07AM | View Sapper's Profile | # | ||||||
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A better alternative would have been sharing it with a forum of people who actually care. Non RP forum or not.
MC Banhammer Edit: There is no purpose I can see to this post other than trolling. So I am treating it as such.
S-J: I can add nothing more than Sapper said regarding the situation, and I am sorry for your and your family’s sadness at this time.
Heh, I can sure call it, only six people even cared enough to post. Keep your inreal problems that no one cares about to yourself. Death Merchant was banned for this post by Evil Trout Death Merchant edited this message on 07/23/2009 2:25PM |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 10:36AM | View Death Merchant's Profile | # | ||||||
SLAVE JEWESS: Im sorry to hear that, keep us updated on her progress. She will be in my thoughts and prayers Log in to see images!
and Death Merchant you have been reported. |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 10:43AM | View Bauzer's Profile | # | ||||||
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i will pray for your sisters speedy recovery, god bless. |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 11:25AM | Morro the bumles... | # | ||||||
My 30 year old sister had a rare cancer that almost killed her. It was a fast moving cancer that, in weeks, took over her ovaries, uterus and cervix.
We thought she had a kidney infection, then we thought she had an ovarian cyst, then we wound up hearing she had six months to live. The doctor told us he’d never seen something like it.
Three days later, after the biopsy, they told us that it was a different cancer than originally thought, and her chance of survival was 95%. (If she’d waited a few more weeks, that would have dropped a lot.)
I’m not minimizing what your sister is going through at all, but considering the loss of ability to reproduce versus the loss of your sister, I think it’s good to look at the positive side, that if it’s cancer, the cancer has been caught and she’s alive.
My sister didn’t have the time to freeze eggs or prepare in any way. She went to sleep thinking she was having a cyst removed and woke up hearing that she had a hysterectomy and would die soon.
She’s still alive, and I consider that a huge miracle. I’ll send good thoughts your sister’s way, and yours as well. I spent a lot of days sitting on a bench outside a strange hospital, crying, for the loss of children she might have, for the loss of my sister. I’m so grateful she’s here.
P.S. If you ever want to talk to someone who’s been where you are (sort of), feel free to TM me. Maybe not everyone on this forum would care, but I certainly do. Best thoughts. Janie edited this message on 08/10/2008 1:18PM |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 1:16PM | View Janie's Profile | # | ||||||
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Thank you for everyone that said nice stuff.
I know it’s not the worst thing that can happen. I just don’t want my sister to have to go through any more pain that she already has. |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 4:01PM | View SLAVE-JEWESS's Profile | # | ||||||
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Hi S-J;
There’s nothing I can add to what’s already been said, just that I am another person who is thinking of you and your sister as you struggle through this.
All the best. |
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Posted On: 08/10/2008 4:21PM | View enire's Profile | # | ||||||
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Pretty much what enire said. |
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Posted On: 08/11/2008 12:01AM | View PhineasPoe's Profile | # | ||||||
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Death Merchant Posted:
Man, you’re so edgy.
As for SJ, sorry to hear that. |
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Posted On: 08/12/2008 4:35PM | View nanalatinojesus ...'s Profile | # | ||||||
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sorry to hear it, sj. my sincere wishes of good health to your sis |
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Posted On: 08/12/2008 4:53PM | View SIG-ENABLING MOC...'s Profile | # | ||||||
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@Death Merchant: You were banned for trolling above, and then you came back and edited your post to include even more trolling?
Enjoy your longer ban this time and think over whether you’re going to do it again. Because if you do, I’m going to permaban you. Threads like this are the absolute WORST place for trolling. So, bye. |
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Posted On: 08/12/2008 10:43PM | View MC Banhammer's Profile | # | ||||||
MC Banhammer Posted:
All hail MC Banhammer!
Anyway, I hope your sister beats this cancer. |
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Posted On: 08/12/2008 11:16PM | View iRAWR's Profile | # | ||||||