SeriousDarkness Posted:

This is true, but pain is obtained through loss, so we must fall in love and then get ourselves dumped by our loved ones, son we can grieve for our lonelyness.

I beg to differ, Serious. To get the greatest pain from our relationships, we must do the dumping, and then only realize our mistake when our ex has moved on to a new relationship. It is at that moment, and that moment alone, when our self-loathing can reach its apex.