There’s plenty of evidence on both sides of this because both are possible. Why are people so set on it being one way or another? You can be born gay, or it can develop later in life. It’s like anything else. Any kind of behavior can be learned through exposure and repetition at an early developmental stage in life. For example, some kids learn bad behavior from having neglectful or irresponsible parents. But on he day I was born, the nurses all gathered ‘round and they gazed in wide wonder, at the joy they had found. The head nurse spoke up, and she said leave this one alone. She could tell right away, that I was bad to the bone